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Discover how ego and the fear of looking weak impact drinking behaviors, and how reframing these beliefs can lead to healthier habits. Listen Now »
Learn how delaying a drink can interrupt urges, reduce autopilot drinking, and help your brain relearn choice. Listen Now »
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Afraid you’ll lose friends if you stop drinking? Learn why you feel "boring" without alcohol and how to find genuine connection without it. Listen Now »![Take A Break from Drinking Rachel Hart | Why Fear-Based Motivation and Replacing Alcohol with Food Doesn’t Bring Relief [Listener Q&A]](https://rachelhart.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/01/take-a-break-fear-motivation-452-fi.jpg)
Hear why fear-based motivation bypasses the skill-building that creates change, and how to break the cycle of replacing alcohol with food. Listen Now »![Take A Break from Drinking Rachel Hart | The Identity Shift That Comes Before Drinking Less [Listener Q&A]](https://rachelhart.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/01/take-a-break-drinking-less-451-fi.jpg)
Learn about the identity shift that comes with trying to drink less, and what to do when the thought, “I'm not where I want to be,” starts draining your momentum. Listen Now »
If your Dry January commitment has already fallen to the wayside, listen in to hear what to do after drinking when you didn't plan to. Listen Now »
Learn what meaningful change would look like in your drinking habits, especially if you doubt your plan will stick. Listen Now »
Hear how you can submit your drinking questions directly to me and I’ll answer them on the podcast - no shame, no judgment, no scare tactics. Listen Now »![Take A Break from Drinking Rachel Hart | I’m an adult, I can drink if I want to [Thought Swap]](https://rachelhart.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/12/take-a-break-im-adult-447-fi.jpg)
Learn what the thought "I'm an adult, I can drink if I want to" reveals, and how to challenge this excuse when it pops up. Listen Now »![Take A Break from Drinking Rachel Hart | I might as well drink because you only live once [Thought Swap]](https://rachelhart.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/12/take-a-break-yolo-thought-446-fi.jpg)
Discover 3 powerful thought swaps that help you keep that “you only live once” vibe while decoupling it from needing a drink. Listen Now »![Take A Break from Drinking Rachel Hart | I'll be more comfortable with a drink [Thought Swap]](https://rachelhart.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/11/take-a-break-comfortable-drink-445-fi.jpg)
Hear three thought swaps that will help you start questioning whether you’re really more comfortable with a drink in your hand. Listen Now »![Take A Break from Drinking Rachel Hart | A drink makes everything better [Thought Swap]](https://rachelhart.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/11/take-a-break-thought-swap-444-fi.jpg)
Discover three specific thought swaps that will help you question the story that a drink makes everything better. Listen Now »
Learn why you're experiencing the internal tension of liking and not liking to drink at the same time, and what to do about it. Listen Now »
Learn why you might be relying on virtue to say no, why self-punishment doesn't work, and what to do instead to create lasting change. Listen Now »
Learn why labels often create more problems than they solve, and how to move forward without letting labels define you. Listen Now »
Learn how awkwardness affects your ability to say no to a drink, why the Connector and Mask archetypes struggle most, and how to reframe awkwardness as a normal human experience. Listen Now »
Adriana Cloud joins me to dig into why non-alcoholic drinks aren't simply "good" or "bad" but reveal deeper patterns about what you're seeking. Listen Now »
Adriana Cloud is back to explore the hidden effort that comes with drinking on autopilot, and why the "easier" choice often creates more work on the back end. Listen Now »
Discover the connection between invisible labor and your drinking habits, and practical ways to acknowledge your labor without reaching for a drink. Listen Now »
Discover the hidden script that’s keeping you stuck with alcohol, and a new playbook for sustainable change based on understanding and skill-building. Listen Now »
Learn how understanding diminishing returns changes everything about how you approach those moments when you want just one more. Listen Now »
Sobriety coach Adriana Cloud is back on the show to discuss how to let go of regret about drinking, and how, when you stop wishing for a time machine and start being a detective about your past decisions, you gain the insights needed to create different outcomes. Listen Now »
Learn why the buzz fades and how accepting that it's supposed to can completely transform your relationship with alcohol. Listen Now »
Learn what to do when you love the taste of alcohol but want to stop wanting something that you enjoy so much. Listen Now »
Learn why reintroducing alcohol after a period of abstinence feels like floodgates opening, sweeping you downstream. Listen Now »
Learn how desire really works, why you find yourself on autopilot the moment a craving hits, and what to do about it. Listen Now »
Learn how to identify whether you're expecting to be passively entertained, and how to stop chasing fun so you can start actually having fun. Listen Now »
Learn how choosing to do hard things forces you to grow and stretch beyond what you think you're capable of, whether it’s changing your relationship with alcohol or any other challenging goal. Listen Now »
Learn how you can apply the skill of staying present through discomfort to urges, whether it's alcohol or any challenging emotion. Listen Now »